Breaking Soul Ties

Step #1 to breaking soul ties:
Repent of any sins that involve that person. I have confessed to my Lord Jesus in heaven of all of the sins I have committted.

If you have had adultery, fornication, etc., it is vital that you repent of those sins and receive God's forgiveness for it before you can go about breaking the soul tie.

Step #2 to breaking soul ties:
Forgive the person of any wrongs done

If you have any unforgiveness in your heart against the person, you must choose to release that bitterness and forgive the person. The Bible is clear that bitterness defiles a man.

I have forgiven him of any wrong doing he has committed against me. I was bitter and I realize that I was. I no longer want to be a bitter or scorned woman. In order to move on I need to give him my forgivness I just hope that he will forgive me of the wrong doings I have done against him and that he won't have bitterness in his heart against me.

Step #3 to breaking soul ties:
Renounce any covenants made with the person

If you have made any spoken commitments, vows or even simply saying, "I will love you forever", it has ample power in the spiritual realm to bind the soul to that person (form a soul tie). The tongue is quite capable of binding the soul and can be a great means to create soul ties:

Proverbs 6:2, "Thou art snared with the words of thy mouth, thou art taken with the words of thy mouth."

These spoken covenants need to be renounced in order to break the soul tie. When you renounce something, you basically take them back verbally. You spoke them verbally, now it is time to take them back verbally. For example, if a woman has had a soul tie with a man who was not the one, and said she would never be able to love another man, then this needs to be renounced if she wants to break the soul tie. Such a woman could renounce it by saying something like, "I renounce having said that I will never be able to love another man."

I have verbally renounced all of the spoken covenants I had spoke when I was with him. Speaking it verbally brings peace to my heart and brings me comfort. I no longer want to be tied to him. I will be able to let God bring a man into my life later on when the time is right and I won't be stuck to this person the rest of my life. I believed that I would never be able to love another again. I don't want to believe this. I want to believe in my heart that if I follow Jesus and live out his will for my life he will bring someone truely amazing into my life. I want to continue to feel peace and comfort in my heart knowing I have done the right thing.

Step #4 to breaking soul ties:
Get rid of any gifts exchanged

Gifts also symbolize a relationship and can hold a soul tie in place. If a person has a ring, personal gifts, cards, jewelry and other 'relationship gifts' from a previous relationship, then it is time to get rid of them. Holding onto such gifts symbolizes that the relationship is still in good standing and can actually hold the soul tie in place even after it has been renounced. You can learn more about the power of symbols in the teaching Symbolic Representations.

This step in the process is very hard for me. He gave me a lot of his posessions and I finally boxed them up and am going to get rid of them. All of the clothes, hats, flowers, candles, teddy bears, rings, necklaces. In order for me to break this tie I need to get rid of this. I can't hold on to these things. I want to but I know that if I hold on to these things that I will not be able to break this tie and I need to break this tie for my heart.

Step #5 to breaking soul ties:
Renounce and break the soul tie in Jesus' name

Verbally renouncing something carries a lot of weight in the spiritual realm. Just as vows can bind the soul, renouncing can release the soul from bonds. Jesus said that whatsoever you shall loose will be loosed in heaven (the heavenly realm, or spiritual realm). You can renounce and loose yourself from an ungodly soul tie by simply speaking something like this from your heart:

"I now renounce and loose myself from any ungodly soul ties formed between myself and __Justin______, and I break these ungodly soul ties in Jesus' name."

This was my devotional today. I have been struggling ALOT and I hope that this can help me to have more confidence in my choice of leaving and help me to be confident in my choice to move on from this. I pray for confidence that I could have a confident heart. I pray that I will have a purified heart and will be pure in Holy in Jesus' sight.

I know that I have went down the wrong path for almost the last year. In my mind it's been almost the past 3 years. I feel like Satan has had a stronghold over my heart since I went to college. I was blinded to what was right and wrong. I have given my heart to more people than just this one person. I am sorry for all of the people I have turned my back on. I have appreciated everyones prayers for me. Even though at the time I was resentful and was not happy that people were praying for me. I am so glad God got in the way and in my path and stopped me. So VERY thankful. At first I was angry that this had to happen. I was angry with God and I was angry at the people praying for me. I ask for forgiveness. God is going to transform my heart and use this somehow. I went through pain and despair but God can get me through anything. I really need to learn to trust again. All of my trust has been broken. And I haven't trusted the Lord with my heart, soul, or life.

I want guidance. I need guidance. I want strong women of God to stand behind me and help me grow in my relationship with Christ. Who is up for this challenge?

Gigi