Virtuous Women

"Who shall find a virtuous women? For such a one is more valuable than precious stones.. and she rises by night, and gives food to her household, and her candle goes not out all night."

There is such an honor in becoming a virtuous woman of God. I was born to be a Godly women. I was born to take comfort, joy, and glory in the full manifestations of womenhood. I am on a journey to find what it means to be a virtuous woman. To capture the feminity, strengh, the nobility, beauty, and everything that womanhood is all about. Today we are allowing ourselves to settle and to fall short of what God's plans for our lives are. We are allowing young girls to date guys at early ages and allowing heartbreak in. I admit I have gotten emotionally involved with guys that I should've never let myself to even be friends with. I have heart scars that I cannot take back and that I am allowing Jesus to heal. By allowing this to happen we are hindering girls from capturing the tools of what womanhood is all about. Relationships between the opposite sex should always be initated by the man. I have failed to abide by this and this is going against what God's plan is. All relationships between the opposite sexes in the bible have been initiated by the man. Women and girls have become so bold and shameless in the area of relationships. Men should initate the relationship ALWAYS. "A man shall leave his father and mother-not a woman to leave her father and mother." Everytime a woman pursues the man instead of the man seeking the woman is considered immoral.. everytime. This goes definitely goes against our culture. But our culture is against God and truth hating. Feminist think we should have the right to be able to pursue a man and be able to take the role as a man. But why should women have to do this why would we want to be reponsible for being the man in the relationship? We are queens sitting on the throne he has to come crawling to us. HE HAS TO SEEK US OUT AND TO FIND US. There is nobility in this. The enemies of scripture want to convince us that this is treating us of something of lesser quality but no this is a nobler quality. The man that God has in store for me will help promote my spiritual life not hinder it. They will not take away from it but help build it up. I want a man to be attracted to my biblical beauty not my sex appeal or my looks or my sensuality. I don't want a man to want me because of my sensuality. I dont want to be a temptress. Sensuality proceeds from a wicked heart.

Mark 7:21-23 says " For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance, and folly. All these evils come from inside and make a man 'unclean'." Sensuality is also a deed of the flesh.

Galatians 5:19-21 says" The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and bebauchery; idolary and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambitions, dissensensions, factions, and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God."

A woman can properly be called beautiful and elegant but a woman who is sensual has an evil heart. I don't want to be a sensual woman. I don't want to have an evil heart. Sensuality is just a public advertisement for the condition of the heart. We should run from it. Us as women need to run from sensuality and run from sensuality in men. We should be like Proverbs 31:10-"A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.'' Men should be attracted to virtue. I want to have virtue. Men should look for virtue not personality or sensuality. I don't want my future husband to be attracted to my physical features I want him to be attracted to me because of my virtue and the Christ that is manifested in my life. I want him to be attracted to that. So I will continue to wait for him and will continue to find what it means to be a virtous woman. Paul Washer's Virtuous Woman inspired me to post this blog.